Relationship quality and family transitions: The UK in international comparison

Lead Research Organisation: University of Southampton
Department Name: Sch of Economic, Social & Political Sci

Abstract

In this project we will analyse couple relationship quality and how it is related to partnership formation, dissolution, and childbearing in the UK and across Europe. With our research we are able to follow both partners over time and accompany them through the first years of their relationship and into parenthood. This provides the unique opportunity to examine why cohabiting couples marry or break up and have children.

This is an area policy makers are increasingly paying attention to, as the breakdown of relationships may not only have negative consequences for partners, but also for child wellbeing. Using data from Understanding Society, we are able to examine relationship quality along a number of specific dimensions, for example, shared interests, communication, frequency of conflict, and regret of having formed the relationship. Our analysis will allow us to assess which dimensions are most relevant for engendering good outcomes and enable policy makers to enact more targeted interventions. In this respect, our research will differ from previous studies in this field which often only use a single indicator of relationship quality.

A particular focus of our study will be on differences between marriage and cohabitation, as the latter has increasingly become a more common living arrangement for couples and a setting for childbearing. While previous research has indicated that cohabiting couples have lower relationship quality, we are interested in whether these differences diminish the longer cohabiting unions last or if they have children. Furthermore, we will examine whether cohabitors with high relationship quality have unions which are as stable as those who are married, and whether they are as likely to become parents as their married counterparts.

The survey design of Understanding Society and our use of advanced quantitative methods will allow us to gain a number of valuable insights. We will be able to examine both partners' perceptions of their relationship and whether the man or woman's view matters more for marriage, childbearing, and union dissolution. We will pay particular attention to financial problems and changes in employment to see whether disadvantaged individuals with poor relationship quality are more or less likely to have a child than those in a better economic situation. We will also consider the role of selection mechanisms that originate in early childhood - such as whether individuals come from separated families or disadvantaged backgrounds. Our longitudinal approach provides a unique opportunity to advance causal explanations regarding relationship quality and outcomes, as well as new insights into the key factors that determine partnership stability and duration.

A further aspect of our study will be a comparison between the UK and other European countries using Understanding Society and The Generations and Gender Surveys. Due to differences in survey design, such comparisons have proved difficult; however, we will create a harmonized dataset of detailed fertility and partnership histories that will be made publicly available and ensure that the UK is not left out of international comparisons in the future. This will promote comparative research across this field, as well as providing further useful insights for policy makers and stakeholders both in the UK and abroad. Moreover, the results of our research will be disseminated internationally, both with other researchers and relationship quality practitioners.

Planned Impact

We expect that the following groups will benefit from this research:
1. Academic social scientists, including demographers, sociologists, and social policy researchers.
2. Policy analysts in government, such as the Analytical Strategy team at the Department of Work and Pensions.
3. Relationship support services and organizations with an interest in helping couples building stronger inter-personal relationships, such as Relate and OnePlusOne.
4. UK and International academics who would like to use Understanding Society to compare family dynamics in the UK with other European countries but who have been unable to due to lack of harmonized data.
The groups will benefit in the following way:
1. The results of this research will shed light on the interrelation between relationship quality and future family transitions including marriage, union dissolution, and childbearing. It will push the theoretical explanations for the development of cohabitation by formulating new perspectives on which couples marry, break up, or have a child outside of marriage. Given the rapid increase in childbearing in cohabitation, it is essential to understand why people are marrying, or which cohabiting relationships will survive. Comparing the UK with other European countries will provide additional insights into how different social, economic, and welfare state contexts shape family formation behaviour.
2. The research will fill important evidence gaps on the key areas that policy makers should address in order to make a difference in people's lives. Although our research focuses on the outcome of adult couple relationships, it implicitly applies to children's outcomes, as adult partnership dynamics are essential for understanding parental conflict. For example, our research will help us to better understand how cohabiting relationships may or may not progress towards marriage or having children, how often poor quality relationships result in pregnancy and subsequently union dissolution, and whether couples may be better off breaking up before pregnancy if in the long-term their unions will dissolve anyhow. It will also directly address the role of disadvantage in family formation, which is a key policy priority area.
3. Third sector organisations will benefit from this research because our goal is to better understand how particular dimensions of relationship quality matter in the long-term. By focusing on the specific dimensions of relationship quality, we will be able to provide suggestions on what may work when developing relationship materials and intervention programmes. We may find, for example, that having similar interests at the outset is more important than low levels of irritation with the partner. We think that these findings can then be translated to use in relationship support services.
4. The UK is often left out of important international comparisons, because Understanding Society has a different research design than the Generations and Gender Survey, the main survey programme on the family in Europe. In 2009, the PI spearheaded an effort to harmonize the partnership and fertility histories from the GGS and similar surveys, including the BHPS, in order to facilitate international comparisons. The Harmonized Histories database now includes surveys from 19 countries and is managed through the GGP team (http://www.ggp-i.org/data/harmonized-histories). Understanding Society, the follow-up to the BHPS, has never been included in the Harmonized Histories. The current project will harmonize Understanding Society, so that both UK and international researchers can easily compare family dynamics cross-nationally.
 
Description This project investigates factors associated with relationship quality and how relationship quality impacts family transitions, in the UK and in international comparison. In the first paper, we use the UKHLS to investigate the impact of losing one's job, or a partner losing their job, on relationship happiness over the short- and long-term in the UK. Our findings suggest that women, in particular, become unhappy with their relationships if their partner loses their job. We recommend that policy-makers acknowledge the role of unemployment, for both the unemployed and their partners, when designing relationship intervention programmes.

In the second paper we use the UKHLS to follow respondents as they: 1) transition from cohabitation into marriage, childbearing, or separation; 2) transition from marriage or cohabitation into parenthood; and 3) transition into marriage after having children. We find that the happiest couples have higher marriage risks before birth, but not after birth. The effect of relationship quality on childbearing operates through marriage: the happiest couples marry, and married couples have children. Our findings suggest a relationship quality "bar" for marriage, which is more important than socio-economic status.

In the third paper, we employ a cross-national perspective to study how relationship quality is associated with the likelihood of marriage and first birth within cohabitation. We use the Generation and Gender Survey and UKHLS, covering seven European countries (Austria, France, Hungary, Netherlands, Norway, Sweden, and UK). We follow respondents as they 1) transition from cohabitation into marriage or have a first birth within cohabitation; 2) transition from marriage or cohabitation to having a first birth. Results indicate that cohabitors with higher relationship quality are more likely to marry in Austria, France, Hungary, and the UK, but not in the Netherlands, Norway and Sweden. Instead, higher relationship quality is associated with first birth in cohabitation Sweden and Norway. Furthermore, married couples have a higher likelihood to have a first birth irrespective of relationship quality in most countries. Thus this study suggests that happy couples in social welfare states such as Norway and Sweden are more likely to have a first birth in cohabitation, while happy couples in other European countries are more likely to marry.
Exploitation Route Our work indicates that unemployment is associated with lower relationship happiness. However, it is not necessarily the individual's job loss that matters. Instead, it is the general disadvantage faced by unemployed people, which is especially true the longer people are out of work. Our work shows that what matters is long-term economic and psychological hardship rather than the shock of losing a job. The consequences of unemployment for relationship happiness seem to become worse the longer people are unemployed. This mainly affects women when their
partners are unemployed. Men's unemployment has more influence on relationship happiness than women's unemployment.

In its effort to improve child outcomes, the Department for Work and Pensions has prioritised separating families and parental relationships. Our findings tie-in directly with this goal. The British Troubled Families Programme, which aims to reduce the strain faced by vulnerable families, should
recognise the impact of unemployment on couples' relationships. Counselling programmes should not only offer relationship support to the unemployed but also their partners, for example at Jobcentres and benefits offices. This assistance could help to alleviate some of the negative consequences of unemployment in the UK.
Sectors Communities and Social Services/Policy

 
Title Understanding Society: Partnership and Fertility Histories, UK part of the GGP Harmonized Histories: Waves 1-9, 2009-2019: Special Licence Access 
Description Understanding Society (the UK Household Longitudinal Study), which began in 2009, is conducted by the Institute for Social and Economic Research (ISER) at the University of Essex, and the survey research organisations Kantar Public and NatCen. It builds on and incorporates, the British Household Panel Survey (BHPS), which began in 1991. The Harmonized Histories is an international comparative dataset, created through harmonising data from existing surveys into one common format. The aim of Harmonized Histories is to facilitate cross-national research on topics related to transition to adulthood, family formation, and childbearing. The dataset focuses on fertility and partnership histories but also captures information on socio-economic status, place of residence and information on the childhood family. You can find more information about Harmonized Histories and access to the datasets from other countries via the Generations & Gender Programme (GGP) website. Two datasets are provided. The first includes all people aged 16 or over who participated in the full interview of Wave 1 of the Understanding Society project and the data as is collected at Wave 1. The second dataset follows the people who are in the first dataset prospectively. Thus, it includes all the retrospective information from the first dataset and has been updated when things changed, for instance the partners got married or had children. For more information please refer to the User Guide. Harmonized Histories uses Understanding Society for data on the UK. As Harmonized Histories is a cross-national project, please note that the variable naming conventions and terminology used in this dataset are different to the standard Understanding Society naming and terms. 
Type Of Material Database/Collection of data 
Year Produced 2021 
Provided To Others? Yes  
Impact The Understanding Society Harmonized Histories are now available to users through the UK Data Service, and the Generations and Gender Hub website. It has been already used for several articles on family change. 
URL https://beta.ukdataservice.ac.uk/datacatalogue/studies/study?id=8930