Digital Intimacies: how gay and bisexual men use smartphones to negotiate their cultures of intimacy

Lead Research Organisation: University of East Anglia
Department Name: Art, Media and American Studies

Abstract

Since smartphones became widely available in 2007 both media, communications & cultural studies and public health academics have been researching how gay and bisexual men use them to negotiate their cultures of intimacy. This research has tended to focus on how these men use 'hook-up' applications, such as Grindr and Scruff, to organise casual sex encounters, particularly in relation to safer sex negotiation. In doing so, much of this research has enriched our understanding of gay and bisexual men's casual sex practices; informed HIV prevention strategies; and begun to shed light on the role of digital media in both of these related contexts.

However, by focusing on hook-up apps, this research has so far overlooked some important issues that relate to smartphone use and intimacy amongst these men. Gay and bisexual men do not only use hook-up apps to negotiate their intimate lives, which are not exclusively defined by casual sex; they frequently migrate between different aspects of their smartphones (e.g. the phone itself, the camera, other social media applications) to practice different sorts of intimacy (e.g. monogamous relationships, open relationships, one off sexual encounters, on-going casual sex partners, infidelities). Researching these practices will have implications not only for popular understandings of gay and bisexual male intimacy (which are often over-determined by casual sex), but also for how effectively the public health sector can provide services that improve the overall health and wellbeing of these men beyond HIV prevention.

The existing research also has a tendency to decontextualize this smartphone use, not fully accounting for the wider socio-cultural conditions in which this use takes place. Gay and bisexual men use smartphones to negotiate intimacy in socio-cultural contexts in which not only ideas and attitudes towards gay and bisexual men are changing (e.g. the legalization of gay marriage, liberalization of more general attitudes to gay and bisexual men) but the material conditions in which they practice intimacy are changing too (e.g. changes in gay nightlife; changes in HIV prevention and treatment; and constantly updating smartphone and internet technologies). This project begins from the cultural studies perspective that media use cannot be adequately made sense of outside of the cultures in which this use takes place. It therefore aims to understand the various ways that gay and bisexual men use different aspects of their smartphones to negotiate different sorts of intimacies within these constantly shifting socio-cultural conditions.

It will do this by deploying an interdisciplinary team of researchers with backgrounds in public health and media and cultural studies and by working closely with the project's partners - Terrence Higgins Trust, London Friend and Waverley Care - all key third sector organisations working with gay and bisexual men. Drawing on these various expertise, this project will use an innovative mixed method approach that combines cultural analysis with qualitative methods. The qualitative methods will be interviews and focus groups with 40 men from two different locations in the UK - London and both rural and urban parts of Eastern Scotland. This dual sited approach is designed to capture place-based cultural differences in smartphone use amongst this group. The cultural analysis will look at a wide range of documents that will help map the context for this smartphone use, from, for example, media representations to policy documents. The project will form its conclusions by performing a cross-case analysis across the data sets - providing a rich and nuanced picture of this sort of smartphone use in relation to the wider socio-cultural conditions in which it takes place.

Planned Impact

This collaborative, interdisciplinary project will impact on the activities of two major groups outside of academia: i) third sector organisations that work to improve the sexual, mental and emotional wellbeing of LGBT+ communities, ii) gay and bisexual men outside of third sector and academic settings.

Impact has been built into the project from the outset through a series of meetings with the project's partners - the Terrence Higgins Trust, London Friend and Waverley Care - all key representatives of third sector organisations working with gay and bisexual men. All organisations explained that there has been a recent growth in issues relating to smartphone use amongst their clients. All believe that the project's findings will provide a reliable evidence base that organisations like them can use to more effectively manage and advise on these issues.

The project will have this impact by engaging in the following knowledge exchange and transfer activities: i) continuous consultation with the project partners for the duration of the project; ii) the publication of grey literature containing interim findings to be distributed to third sector organisations via the project personnel's and partner's networks; iii) an end of project symposium where both academics and third sector organisations will be invited to attend to discuss the project's results and the impact they will have on their activities. This pathway to impact will be measured via testimonials written by the project partners, and questionnaires distributed during the end of project symposium.

The project will also engage gay and bisexual men from outside third sector and academic settings in the following ways: i) via a podcast series produced at the end of the project, where the principal investigator and co-investigator discuss the project findings in non-technical and accessible language; ii) working with the UEA press office and the principal investigator's long established contacts in the gay media to secure media coverage for the project. The desired effect is for the project findings to impact on the ways gay and bisexual men both practice and reflect on their intimate lives in ways that will improve their overall health and wellbeing. Impact will be measured by the analytics provided by the website hosting the podcast (Libsyn), the comments section on the podcast page of the project website, and the amount and type of coverage secured by UEA's press office.

At the end of the project all data relating to impact will be analysed and published as an impact report on the project website.

Publications

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Description 1) Methodologically it is important to situate smartphone mediated cultures of intimacy within the historical conditions in which they are practiced.

2) Queer men framed their experiences of intimacy in terms of vulnerability.

3) Queer men used different aspects of their smartphones to gain a sense of control over the ways their intimate lives made them feel vulnerable.

4) Queer men developed creative forms of harm reduction in order to experience in-person intimacy during the coronavirus pandemic.

5) Issues of race and gender have been key sites of contestation during the current conjuncture and this has shaped the ways all of the project's participants have used their smartphones to negotiate the pains and pleasures of their cultures of intimacy, especially our trans-masculine participants and our participants of colour.

6) Smartphones have played a key role in the ongoing struggles over the existence of queer men's collective spaces of intimacy (e.g. bars, clubs, community and commercial spaces).
Exploitation Route 1) Researchers on digital intimacies (in media studies, cultural studies, gender studies, queer studies, sociology of health, public health) might adopt the methodological approach taken.

2) Researchers digital intimacies have already engaged with the project's findings (the first article is already receiving citations).

3) Third sector organisations working on queer men's health have told us they will use the project's findings to shape their organisation's policy and in their client facing activity.

4) It is formed the basis of an application for an ESRC Research Network + grant called Digital Intimacies, Vulnerabilities and Equity - DIVE+ with colleagues from Coventry University, UCL and the University of Turku.
Sectors Communities and Social Services/Policy,Digital/Communication/Information Technologies (including Software),Healthcare

 
Description On 23 November 2021 we had the Digital Intimacies End of Project Symposium: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jUzeOU_xwKw This included talks from the team, responses from academics and response from Monty Moncreiff from sexual health organisation London Friend and Marc Thompson from sexual health organisation The Love Tank. Both explained how the project findings will inform the work they do at their sexual health organisations
First Year Of Impact 2021
Sector Healthcare
Impact Types Societal

 
Description Terrence Higgins Trust 
Organisation Terrence Higgins Trust
Country United Kingdom 
Sector Charity/Non Profit 
PI Contribution We have produced an end of project report and a fanzine that summaries the project's key findings that will be used by the Terrence Higgins Trust when developing policy and in their client facing activity.
Collaborator Contribution The Terrence Higgins Trust advised on what questions to ask our participants, publicised participant recruitment materials through their networks, advised on content and media form for our engagement materials and our contact at the THT spoke at our public facing, end of project symposium about their significance of our findings to their work.
Impact Clarke et al. (2021) Digital Intimacies 'Zine. London: King's College London. Available at: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1SHz9_3nPHogXc4EwrUxRpn-Kp8hocUND/view Young et al. (2021) Digital Intimacies: End of Project Report. London: King's College London Available at: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1YgAzNu0VCoC1ssVZvEDwa7Y5MIiU0E91/view
Start Year 2019
 
Description Desire in the Archive, Bishopsgate Library 
Form Of Engagement Activity A talk or presentation
Part Of Official Scheme? No
Geographic Reach Local
Primary Audience Public/other audiences
Results and Impact I was in conversation with Jordan Osserman on different theoretical approaches to understanding queer men's cultures of intimacy, basing my part of the conversation on project findings. There was an audience of 200 people many of whom expressed interest in our findings, explaining they had changed their mind on the matters we discussed. We also archived the Digital Intimacies zine in the Bishopsgate Institute's LGBT Manuscript Collection (LGBTM/501).
Year(s) Of Engagement Activity 2023
URL https://www.bishopsgate.org.uk/whats-on/activity/230210-desire-in-the-archive
 
Description Digital Intimacies 'Zine 
Form Of Engagement Activity A magazine, newsletter or online publication
Part Of Official Scheme? No
Geographic Reach International
Primary Audience Public/other audiences
Results and Impact The Digital Intimacies 'Zine is a 16 page fanzine designed to engage non-academic audiences with the major findings of the project and to be used by third sector organisations in their client-facing activities.
Year(s) Of Engagement Activity 2021
URL https://drive.google.com/drive/u/0/my-drive
 
Description Digital Intimacies End of Project Report 
Form Of Engagement Activity A magazine, newsletter or online publication
Part Of Official Scheme? No
Geographic Reach International
Primary Audience Third sector organisations
Results and Impact The Digital Intimacies: End of Project Report is a 14 page report designed to engage third sector organisations and professional practitioners with the major findings of the project.
Year(s) Of Engagement Activity 2019
URL https://drive.google.com/file/d/1YgAzNu0VCoC1ssVZvEDwa7Y5MIiU0E91/view
 
Description Digital Intimacies Zine Workshop, SUNY Purchase 
Form Of Engagement Activity Participation in an activity, workshop or similar
Part Of Official Scheme? No
Geographic Reach International
Primary Audience Undergraduate students
Results and Impact Jamie Hakim and James Cummings lead a Zine making workshop for undergraduates explaining how to use zines to communicate research findings to non-academic audiences
Year(s) Of Engagement Activity 2021,2022
 
Description Digital Intimacies and Emerging Adults PhD Workshop, ECREA, University of Padova 
Form Of Engagement Activity A talk or presentation
Part Of Official Scheme? No
Geographic Reach International
Primary Audience Postgraduate students
Results and Impact I delivered a keynote lecture to this 3 day PhD workshop about project findings. I was also involved in giving feedback to PhD students on their research projects.
Year(s) Of Engagement Activity 2022
URL https://ecrea.eu/page-18206/12768767
 
Description Digital Intimacies: End of Project Symposium 
Form Of Engagement Activity A talk or presentation
Part Of Official Scheme? No
Geographic Reach International
Primary Audience Professional Practitioners
Results and Impact This symposium communicated the major findings of the project to academic, third sector audiences as a well as the general public. It took the form of a presentation by the project team and a response to the findings by other academics and third sector project partners. Speakers included: James Cummings (Newcastle University), Jamie Hakim (King's College, London), Lauren Redfern (King's College, London), Ingrid Young (University of Edinburgh), Adam Bourne (La Trobe University), Shaka McGlotten (Purchase College - SUNY), Monty Moncrieff (London Friend), Marc Thompson (BlackOut, LoveTankUK).



Chair

John Mercer (Birmingham City University)
Year(s) Of Engagement Activity 2021
URL https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jUzeOU_xwKw
 
Description End of project talk for Centre for Gender Studies Summer School, Lancaster University 
Form Of Engagement Activity A talk or presentation
Part Of Official Scheme? No
Geographic Reach National
Primary Audience Postgraduate students
Results and Impact I gave a keynote lecture to a PhD summer school. Approximately 40 people attended on and offline. We discussed methodological approaches to digital intimacies with many expressing interest in using the methods we used.
Year(s) Of Engagement Activity 2022
URL https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pBTNM2YzAPw&t=3826s
 
Description Interview on Culture, Sex and Relationship Podcast 
Form Of Engagement Activity A press release, press conference or response to a media enquiry/interview
Part Of Official Scheme? No
Geographic Reach International
Primary Audience Public/other audiences
Results and Impact The project PI and Co-I were invited to speak on Justin Hancock's podcast 'Culture Sex and Relationships' about the project findings.
Year(s) Of Engagement Activity 2021
URL https://soundcloud.com/culturesexrelationships/digital-intimacies
 
Description Love is a Smartphone Research Seminar Series: Jamie Hakim in conversation with Lik Sam Chan 
Form Of Engagement Activity A talk or presentation
Part Of Official Scheme? No
Geographic Reach International
Primary Audience Postgraduate students
Results and Impact I was in conversation with another media academic and we discussed queer men's digital intimacies in the UK and China. We then had a discussion with the other academics and postgraduates who attended the talk.
Year(s) Of Engagement Activity 2021
URL https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J9TyZ5A85n8
 
Description Pandemic Intimacies 
Form Of Engagement Activity A talk or presentation
Part Of Official Scheme? No
Geographic Reach International
Primary Audience Professional Practitioners
Results and Impact The 'Pandemic Intimacies Roundtable' was an online webinar where academics and a practitioner discussed the challenges facing gay and bisexual men when trying to negotiate their cultures of intimacy during the coronavirus pandemic. Speakers included: João Florêncio (University of Exeter), Jamie Hakim (University of East Anglia), John Mercer (Birmingham City University), Kristian Møller (IT University of Copenhagen), Marc Thompson (BlackOut, LoveTankUK), Charlie Witzel (Sigma Research, LSHTM), Ingrid Young (University of Edinburgh). The roundtable can be viewed here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wSqngdZx7qc&t=736s
Year(s) Of Engagement Activity 2020
URL https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wSqngdZx7qc&t=736s
 
Description Vulnerability and Control: queer men, smartphones and cultures of intimacy, Roskilde University 
Form Of Engagement Activity A talk or presentation
Part Of Official Scheme? No
Geographic Reach Regional
Primary Audience Undergraduate students
Results and Impact I was invited to Roskilde University to deliver both a guest lecture to undergraduates and an invited talk to postgraduates and academic staff. It sparked conversation afterwards and generated interest in the methodological approach that we used.
Year(s) Of Engagement Activity 2021
 
Description Zine Making Workshop, University of Turke 
Form Of Engagement Activity Participation in an activity, workshop or similar
Part Of Official Scheme? No
Geographic Reach International
Primary Audience Postgraduate students
Results and Impact Jamie Hakim and James Cummings led a zine making workshop for postgraduate students that focused on how to use zines to communicate research findings to non-academic audiences.
Year(s) Of Engagement Activity 2022